Getting the Love You Want

Getting the Love You Want

When Harville Hendrix writes about relationships, he discusses them not just as an educator and a therapist, but as a man who has himself been through a failed marriage. Hendrix felt the sting of his divorce intensely because he believed it signaled not only his failure as a husband but also his failure as a couples counselor. Investigating why his marriage dissolved led him to start looking into the psychology of love. Marriage, he ultimately discovered, is the "practice of becoming passionate friends."

As a result of his research, Hendrix created a therapy he calls Imago Relationship Therapy. In it, he combines what he's learned in a number of disciplines, including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, to name just a few. He expounds upon this approach in Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. His purpose in writing the book, he says, is "to share with you what I have learned about the psychology of love relationships, and to help you transform your relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship."

Divided into three sections, the book covers "The Unconscious Marriage," which details a marriage in which the remaining desires and behavior of childhood interfere with the current relationship; "The Conscious Marriage," which shows a marriage that fulfils those childhood needs in a positive manner; and a 10-week "course in relationship therapy, " which gives detailed exercises for you and your partner to follow in order to learn how to "replace confrontation and criticism ... with a healing process of mutual growth and support." The text is occasionally dry and technical; however, the information provided is valuable, the case studies are interesting, and the exercises are revealing and helpful. By utilizing his program, Hendrix hopes you too will be able to solve your marital difficulties without the expense of a therapist. --Jenny Brown

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300 Creative & Inexpensive Date Ideas

You'll discover…

300 Creative Dates - Dozens of dates that are perfect for long-distance relationships. There are dates specifically for celebrating the season, birthdays, anniversaries, vacation dates and other special occasions.

8 Creative Ways To Ask Someone Out - Why just ask someone out the normal way when you can make it a memorable experience?

20 Dating Coupons - Coupons you can give your sweetheart to redeem for future creative dates.

14 Dating Disaster Stories - As a special bonus - you will read a collection of disaster stories. They're hilarious, but also very valuable so you don't make the same mistakes.

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Blow by Blow Fellatio ­ Book Review

So we all know that men LOVE fellatio but not all women know how to do it properly. So is Michael Webb’s latest edition worth reading? Let’s find out…

After just reviewing a book on oral sex of the female variety (cunnilingus), I have to say I’m now a BIG believer in guides on oral pleasure. It really does take more work than just an up and down motion.

Okay, so while there are many interesting sections in this book including health and safety, diagrams and anatomy, shaving and waxing and visual stimulation, the REAL heart of the book is in the techniques section.

The book contained 15 techniques in total, which range from obvious all the way to techniques I’d never heard of before! Yes, there’s much more than just suck! And if you’ve ever wanted to know how to deep throat or ever felt too scared to try, you’ll appreciate this in the advanced techniques section, although it would have been nice if it went into a little more detail.

Also, I really enjoyed the section on “building anticipation” which helps men have a more powerful and satisfying orgasm. And it was nice to see that the whole trouble with “getting it up” problem was solved with some very impressive ideas too!

However, probably the best thing about the book was that the locations, positions and new sensations sections really help inspire you to come up with your own ideas and ways to spice up fellatio and keep it exciting ­ because it’s almost always the same.

So were there any down points? Sure. I found many of the other sections a little tedious and a little boring. I mean, some were interesting, like the health and safety, but I often found myself sneaking a peak at the techniques section before coming back and reading it again properly.

Nevertheless, I still think Blow by Blow is a must read for women. So if you suspect that your man’s not enjoying oral pleasure much, you’re new to all this or a little scared, or even if you just want to give him an out of this world experience, then this book is perfect for you! Two big thumbs up!

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Don't put on weight while on a Cruise

As Lovers we all want to take our partner on a romantic cruise, which we all deserve at least once in out life.

Well on a cruise ship what happens?
You both walk, talk, spend time with each other - both in and out of bed -
you eat well, you celebrate, you drink, and possibly put on as much as 10 pounds each on a 7 Day Cruise.

If you’re thinking of taking a cruise in the near future, then you need to check this out. It could be the difference between the time of your life or a depressing disaster, so listen up!

I was surfing the net today and found a very interesting book about cruise vacations by best-selling author Michael Webb.

I read the book from cover to cover and I must say it’s incredible!

"How To Lose Weight While Eating Like Royalty On a Cruise"

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You can thank me later.

Would you like to have writen this??????????

"Tom... For the last few years, my marriage has not been all that good. My husband is a good man. He works hard. We live in a nice house. He doesn't ever hit me. The bills get paid. But how I longed for the romance and passion we had when he first courted me and we got married. Then, on last Christmas Eve, I downloaded your book. I started using the first technique you suggested Christmas morning and boy did that set him on fire! Our life hasn't been the same since. Now he treats me like a lovesick teenage boy who can't get enough! Thank you, thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart!"
~ Rina M., St. Louis, Missouri

Do You Know?

• What to say in the kitchen to get him to put down the paper and notice you...




• The nine words you should never say before breakfast...




• The secret of making him look at you (and no one else) with love and desire in his eyes...




• The secret of making nearly every woman you meet green with envy over the way your man treats you...

• What to keep by your bedside to guarantee good morning kisses instead of an order of eggs over-easy for breakfast...




• A simple but fun game you can play that makes him want you all year long... The secret of getting him to make love to you as often as you want?

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3 Ways To Intensify You Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall
lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn
three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that
will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. Prolong your foreplay

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it
gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just
human nature. Think about a big event in your life. Whether it be a party, a
holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time
under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin
and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for
both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...

2. Try new things with a "twist"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new
lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would
definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling,
simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new technique––pack a picnic and head
to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the
magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. Play bedroom games

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun
and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other
tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way

2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be
using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate
play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll
just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get
excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better
way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "100 Sex Games For Couples",
a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and intimacy
to your experience. To read more, visit:
Learn more about '100 Sex Games For Couples' here

What you absolutely must know about the one you are with.

This is one very useful eBook.
Here are over 1,000 of the most important questions that you and your partner should ask each other. These are the questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "couple's questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your most embarrassing moment".

Here are some of the topics the 1000 questions are divided into:

Personality, Feelings & Emotions

Pets

Health, Food & Well Being

Morals, Convictions and Beliefs

Car & Driver Holidays & Celebrations

Past & Future

Love, Romance & Date Nights

Communication

Money

Children & Child Rearing

Sex

When you and your partner answer these 1000 questions, I guarantee that you will know each other better than 99% of couples on the face of the earth,
Imagine the advantages you will both have.......

"My boyfriend and I took four months going through the questions - a few each day and at the end we were so certain about our future together that we didn't hesitate to get engaged."

"I had been going out with this guy for about 7 months and we were even engaged when I began to question whether or not I really knew him. My mom bought this book for me as she was really concerned.
We only got through about half of the book and it was pretty obvious that he wasn't exactly what he portrayed himself to be. I got real creeped out by some of his answers and I am sooooooo grateful I didn't marry the guy."

These are just a few comments from some of the many people that this book has helped...

It will help you as well.

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Checkout the 1000 questions here