Thursday, July 24, 2008

Can you tell me What Causes Conflict in Couples?

Well at least give your point of view anyway....and also see what others think.
At http://www.squidoo.com/couples-in-conflict there are two new polls that ask "What are the Causes of Conflict in Couples". One is for the Guy's and the other is for the Gal's, it would be great if you would complete the appropriate poll as this will be interesting reading once we have a few hundred people filling this in.
Tell or your mates about this web lens and we'll see what the out come is.

http://www.squidoo.com/couples-in-conflict

Saturday, July 19, 2008

I've found a new Website for Couples

This new website has books that covers many aspects of relationships for couples and lovers, it supplies books for lovers and books for couples, one of the sections cover Couples in Love another covers Couples in Conflict.

These areas are of concern for many couples in todays society, there is also a section for Lesbian and Gay couples with books covering the legal aspects of Gay and Lesbian relationships and even Estate Planning for same sex couples.

So no mater what your relationship is or what state it is in, there is a book to enhance your relationship at Books - for couples


Happy reading

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Powerful Strategies to Make Your Marriage Sizzle

Transform yourself into the Woman that your
Husband Will Want to Marry All Over Again


The Book Your Husband Wants You to Read!


I've said it before, whether your husband admits to it or not, he WANTS you to gain access to his heart, discover his desires, needs and secrets but he doesn't want to have to tell you to do so. That's because your husband is ill-equipped to tell you what he wants without appearing like an insensitive, selfish, uncaring bastard to you. Neither does he know the psychological reasons why he thinks, speaks or behaves the way he does -- let alone teach you how to behave towards him!

This is a very good Book for Lovers to read either separately or together

Therefore, I've taken it upon myself to speak on behalf of all husbands everywhere. I've written the e-book that your husband would write just for you, if he knew how. This e-book is guaranteed to make your marriage more blissful -- and dramatically improve the relationship between your husband and you. The title of this e-book is What Husbands Can't Resist -- Powerful Insights That Will Make Him Want to Marry You All Over Again

Deep in your heart, isn't this what you (and every wife) wishes -- to be the center of your husband's attention, to always be captivating to him, and to have him constantly validate your desirability and beauty? And the other wish I know you and every wife has is to see your husband reach his full potential.

That's because more often than not, wives see in their husbands more potential for greatness than the husbands see in themselves. I'm sure you've heard the saying,

"A man marries a woman, hoping she will never change -- and a woman marries a man, hoping he will change ... for the better."

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Monday, July 14, 2008

Why Making "No Decision" About Your Relationship is Almost Always The Wrong Decision...

A lot of people ( and couples) think that if they put off the decision of whether they want to stay in or leave their relationships, the problems they are having will magically somehow heal themselves or disappear.

They won't.

If you don't invest some quality time now in taking a true, honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time.

It's amazing to us how many people are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship.

So many people waste so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy, either in their current relationship or one that is more of what they want.

We encourage you to take an honest look at your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about this relationship.

If having a great relationship is important to you, you need to decide that you're not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer.

You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life.

We're not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. That's your decision and one that should only be made after some careful insight and thinking.

What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want and the love that's possible for all of us.

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Wednesday, July 9, 2008

How To Dramatically Improve Communication in Your Relationship

Are these questions of any concern to you in your relationship?

What are your 5 Big Communication Roadblocks that get in the way
of a close connected relationship...?

Why Communication is such a big challenge
in many relationships...?

How You Can Put Any Communication Challenge Behind you and Start Creating a Closer Relationship Right Now...

If these are questions you want help to answer .... learn more about communication for couples in the book Communication Magic bought to you by Books for lovers.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Getting the Love You Want

Getting the Love You Want

When Harville Hendrix writes about relationships, he discusses them not just as an educator and a therapist, but as a man who has himself been through a failed marriage. Hendrix felt the sting of his divorce intensely because he believed it signaled not only his failure as a husband but also his failure as a couples counselor. Investigating why his marriage dissolved led him to start looking into the psychology of love. Marriage, he ultimately discovered, is the "practice of becoming passionate friends."

As a result of his research, Hendrix created a therapy he calls Imago Relationship Therapy. In it, he combines what he's learned in a number of disciplines, including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, to name just a few. He expounds upon this approach in Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. His purpose in writing the book, he says, is "to share with you what I have learned about the psychology of love relationships, and to help you transform your relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship."

Divided into three sections, the book covers "The Unconscious Marriage," which details a marriage in which the remaining desires and behavior of childhood interfere with the current relationship; "The Conscious Marriage," which shows a marriage that fulfils those childhood needs in a positive manner; and a 10-week "course in relationship therapy, " which gives detailed exercises for you and your partner to follow in order to learn how to "replace confrontation and criticism ... with a healing process of mutual growth and support." The text is occasionally dry and technical; however, the information provided is valuable, the case studies are interesting, and the exercises are revealing and helpful. By utilizing his program, Hendrix hopes you too will be able to solve your marital difficulties without the expense of a therapist. --Jenny Brown

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Saturday, July 5, 2008

300 Creative & Inexpensive Date Ideas

You'll discover…

300 Creative Dates - Dozens of dates that are perfect for long-distance relationships. There are dates specifically for celebrating the season, birthdays, anniversaries, vacation dates and other special occasions.

8 Creative Ways To Ask Someone Out - Why just ask someone out the normal way when you can make it a memorable experience?

20 Dating Coupons - Coupons you can give your sweetheart to redeem for future creative dates.

14 Dating Disaster Stories - As a special bonus - you will read a collection of disaster stories. They're hilarious, but also very valuable so you don't make the same mistakes.

Get your copy of 300 Creative Dates today from Books for Lovers.

Friday, July 4, 2008

101 Romantic Ideas ebook giveaway.....

Just one of the 101 Romantic ideas
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her you are worried about her so you have arranged a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a teddy bear.

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Thursday, July 3, 2008

Blow by Blow Fellatio ­ Book Review

So we all know that men LOVE fellatio but not all women know how to do it properly. So is Michael Webb’s latest edition worth reading? Let’s find out…

After just reviewing a book on oral sex of the female variety (cunnilingus), I have to say I’m now a BIG believer in guides on oral pleasure. It really does take more work than just an up and down motion.

Okay, so while there are many interesting sections in this book including health and safety, diagrams and anatomy, shaving and waxing and visual stimulation, the REAL heart of the book is in the techniques section.

The book contained 15 techniques in total, which range from obvious all the way to techniques I’d never heard of before! Yes, there’s much more than just suck! And if you’ve ever wanted to know how to deep throat or ever felt too scared to try, you’ll appreciate this in the advanced techniques section, although it would have been nice if it went into a little more detail.

Also, I really enjoyed the section on “building anticipation” which helps men have a more powerful and satisfying orgasm. And it was nice to see that the whole trouble with “getting it up” problem was solved with some very impressive ideas too!

However, probably the best thing about the book was that the locations, positions and new sensations sections really help inspire you to come up with your own ideas and ways to spice up fellatio and keep it exciting ­ because it’s almost always the same.

So were there any down points? Sure. I found many of the other sections a little tedious and a little boring. I mean, some were interesting, like the health and safety, but I often found myself sneaking a peak at the techniques section before coming back and reading it again properly.

Nevertheless, I still think Blow by Blow is a must read for women. So if you suspect that your man’s not enjoying oral pleasure much, you’re new to all this or a little scared, or even if you just want to give him an out of this world experience, then this book is perfect for you! Two big thumbs up!

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