Saturday, September 13, 2008

New Blog - Find a Lover

Here's some good fun and some great info for lovers - a new Blog
http://www.find-a-lover.blogspot.com. This blog will cover aspects of finding a new partner both male and female.
As I track down good sites and info I will add them to Find a Lover to date I have 3 DVD's for lovers a good looking teddy and a website on what men can do better. so have a look and tell me what you think.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

More Books for Lovers

As lovers we are in a relationship, those relationships are named in various ways, it maybe a friendship where you are lovers of convenience, you maybe living together, you maybe engaged to be married or you may already be married and have been for many years.

Each one of these are different stages within each of our lives and relationship, our aim, I believe is to find our partner and decide to have such a relationship that enables love 'to grow'. Yes sometimes we fall 'in Love' when we first meet, then we've all seen or heard of relationships where the initial meeting between a couple was full of tension and friction in many ways, yet a long term marriage has resulted, and is strong.

Between these two examples sit the relationships of most of the population of this world, it does not matter if we are in New Zealand, South Africa or Norway or any other country in this world, or no matter what nationally we are, the fact is that we need to ‘work on our relationship’ no matter where we live. For one reason or another we chose whom we are living with or married to, they were good reasons, they were valid, they were what made us feel happy, safe, comforted and yes ‘part of a relationship’.

During the many stages of relationships there are expectations and exterior pressures from family, friends, work, advertising (yes advertising), magazines, TV and the internet. Even this article could have a lasting effect and influence on ourselves and our partner, therefore effecting our relationship, causing it to be pushed and pulled in many ways.

It has been said that ‘The grass is greener on the other side of the fence’ we see this in advertising – the holidays that we could have – the next new toy we crave - we know that to get these items we have to ‘work’ to find the money to pay for them.

Where as, in a relationship that may not be going as we expect, we see all the faults of our partner, not realizing - completely - what is actually having an effect on him or her, we may know some of the causes (we think), but not even our partner may entirely know what is creating the reactions that we see.

I like a slight variation on the above saying.
‘The Grass maybe greener on the other side of the fence – but it also needs mowing’
Your relationship needs to be looked after, it needs to be nurtured even massaged every now and again.

I’ve found some books for lovers that are designed to help couples through a relationship breakdown. My suggestion is to read them before you need them.
Some of the titles are:

“Saving your Marriage”
How to keep your loving relationship growing day after day, year after year.
This is the glue that cements it all. This is the endpoint (or beginning) you'll finally realize and live a happy life with your spouse. If you apply all the techniques in this book, not only should you count on getting your loved one back but you can also rest assured that your relationship will actually become deeper and more satisfying than you ever thought possible!

“Keep your Marriage”
Of course you want a happy marriage. Everyone does, and we deserve it.
But does it seem like your marriage is falling apart in front of your eyes? And you don't know what to do?
Don't give up. There's still hope for you Both.

“Save my Marriage Today”
"Have You Ever Stayed Awake at Night Stressing About Whether or Not Your Marriage Will Last - And What You Can Possibly Do to Save It?"
"Put an End to the Stress and Anxiety of Not Knowing What to Do to Save Your Troubled Marriage!"

“Fix Your Sexless Marriage”
A sexless marriage isn't a problem in itself. It's a symptom of something much deeper. Trying to solve the symptom instead of the problem can actually make things worse between you. If you really want to get the sex back into your marriage you must look deeper to find the real cause.

You can learn more about these books on the Squidoo Lens
to-save-a-marriage as I said, get them and read them before you need them.

Monday, August 11, 2008

John Gottman and his work on couples relationships

John Gottman has been studying the relationship of relationships on married couples for many years. Many Relationship councilors use his methods to help couples through their conflict and assist the couples to learn how to improve the relationship.

He has written many books on his methods and discoveries, each method has been proven to be very accurate in forecasting the longevity of a marriage, his method has proven to be more than 90% accurate in predicting which couples will last longer than 6 years.
Find out the method and which book explains it all at
http://www.squidoo.com/couples-in-conflict

While your there check out the videos that covers some of his ideas and methods.
Check out the lens I found it really interesting.
John Gottman

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Can you tell me What Causes Conflict in Couples?

Well at least give your point of view anyway....and also see what others think.
At http://www.squidoo.com/couples-in-conflict there are two new polls that ask "What are the Causes of Conflict in Couples". One is for the Guy's and the other is for the Gal's, it would be great if you would complete the appropriate poll as this will be interesting reading once we have a few hundred people filling this in.
Tell or your mates about this web lens and we'll see what the out come is.

http://www.squidoo.com/couples-in-conflict

Saturday, July 19, 2008

I've found a new Website for Couples

This new website has books that covers many aspects of relationships for couples and lovers, it supplies books for lovers and books for couples, one of the sections cover Couples in Love another covers Couples in Conflict.

These areas are of concern for many couples in todays society, there is also a section for Lesbian and Gay couples with books covering the legal aspects of Gay and Lesbian relationships and even Estate Planning for same sex couples.

So no mater what your relationship is or what state it is in, there is a book to enhance your relationship at Books - for couples


Happy reading

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Powerful Strategies to Make Your Marriage Sizzle

Transform yourself into the Woman that your
Husband Will Want to Marry All Over Again


The Book Your Husband Wants You to Read!


I've said it before, whether your husband admits to it or not, he WANTS you to gain access to his heart, discover his desires, needs and secrets but he doesn't want to have to tell you to do so. That's because your husband is ill-equipped to tell you what he wants without appearing like an insensitive, selfish, uncaring bastard to you. Neither does he know the psychological reasons why he thinks, speaks or behaves the way he does -- let alone teach you how to behave towards him!

This is a very good Book for Lovers to read either separately or together

Therefore, I've taken it upon myself to speak on behalf of all husbands everywhere. I've written the e-book that your husband would write just for you, if he knew how. This e-book is guaranteed to make your marriage more blissful -- and dramatically improve the relationship between your husband and you. The title of this e-book is What Husbands Can't Resist -- Powerful Insights That Will Make Him Want to Marry You All Over Again

Deep in your heart, isn't this what you (and every wife) wishes -- to be the center of your husband's attention, to always be captivating to him, and to have him constantly validate your desirability and beauty? And the other wish I know you and every wife has is to see your husband reach his full potential.

That's because more often than not, wives see in their husbands more potential for greatness than the husbands see in themselves. I'm sure you've heard the saying,

"A man marries a woman, hoping she will never change -- and a woman marries a man, hoping he will change ... for the better."

Get your copy of 'What Husbands Can't Resist' Here
Strongly recommended by www.Books-for-Lovers.blogspot.com

Monday, July 14, 2008

Why Making "No Decision" About Your Relationship is Almost Always The Wrong Decision...

A lot of people ( and couples) think that if they put off the decision of whether they want to stay in or leave their relationships, the problems they are having will magically somehow heal themselves or disappear.

They won't.

If you don't invest some quality time now in taking a true, honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time.

It's amazing to us how many people are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship.

So many people waste so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy, either in their current relationship or one that is more of what they want.

We encourage you to take an honest look at your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about this relationship.

If having a great relationship is important to you, you need to decide that you're not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer.

You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life.

We're not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. That's your decision and one that should only be made after some careful insight and thinking.

What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want and the love that's possible for all of us.

Get Your copy of 'Should I Stay or Should I go'

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

How To Dramatically Improve Communication in Your Relationship

Are these questions of any concern to you in your relationship?

What are your 5 Big Communication Roadblocks that get in the way
of a close connected relationship...?

Why Communication is such a big challenge
in many relationships...?

How You Can Put Any Communication Challenge Behind you and Start Creating a Closer Relationship Right Now...

If these are questions you want help to answer .... learn more about communication for couples in the book Communication Magic bought to you by Books for lovers.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Getting the Love You Want

Getting the Love You Want

When Harville Hendrix writes about relationships, he discusses them not just as an educator and a therapist, but as a man who has himself been through a failed marriage. Hendrix felt the sting of his divorce intensely because he believed it signaled not only his failure as a husband but also his failure as a couples counselor. Investigating why his marriage dissolved led him to start looking into the psychology of love. Marriage, he ultimately discovered, is the "practice of becoming passionate friends."

As a result of his research, Hendrix created a therapy he calls Imago Relationship Therapy. In it, he combines what he's learned in a number of disciplines, including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, to name just a few. He expounds upon this approach in Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. His purpose in writing the book, he says, is "to share with you what I have learned about the psychology of love relationships, and to help you transform your relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship."

Divided into three sections, the book covers "The Unconscious Marriage," which details a marriage in which the remaining desires and behavior of childhood interfere with the current relationship; "The Conscious Marriage," which shows a marriage that fulfils those childhood needs in a positive manner; and a 10-week "course in relationship therapy, " which gives detailed exercises for you and your partner to follow in order to learn how to "replace confrontation and criticism ... with a healing process of mutual growth and support." The text is occasionally dry and technical; however, the information provided is valuable, the case studies are interesting, and the exercises are revealing and helpful. By utilizing his program, Hendrix hopes you too will be able to solve your marital difficulties without the expense of a therapist. --Jenny Brown

Get your Copy of Getting the Love You Want

Saturday, July 5, 2008

300 Creative & Inexpensive Date Ideas

You'll discover…

300 Creative Dates - Dozens of dates that are perfect for long-distance relationships. There are dates specifically for celebrating the season, birthdays, anniversaries, vacation dates and other special occasions.

8 Creative Ways To Ask Someone Out - Why just ask someone out the normal way when you can make it a memorable experience?

20 Dating Coupons - Coupons you can give your sweetheart to redeem for future creative dates.

14 Dating Disaster Stories - As a special bonus - you will read a collection of disaster stories. They're hilarious, but also very valuable so you don't make the same mistakes.

Get your copy of 300 Creative Dates today from Books for Lovers.

Friday, July 4, 2008

101 Romantic Ideas ebook giveaway.....

Just one of the 101 Romantic ideas
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her you are worried about her so you have arranged a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a teddy bear.

Use this and 100 other terrific ideas to melt your partner's heart now!

What others are saying about the 101 Romantic Ideas eBook.

What wonderful "recipes" in this ebook! It reminds me of the way things used to be in the old days...so much you can do with natural products and things around the house you would be shocked! The best part is that you save a ton of money over buying these things in the store. Worth the price ten times over!

This book sells for up to $39 on eBay you can have it .... at no cost
Download your copy of 101 Romantic Ideas today from Books for Lovers

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Blow by Blow Fellatio ­ Book Review

So we all know that men LOVE fellatio but not all women know how to do it properly. So is Michael Webb’s latest edition worth reading? Let’s find out…

After just reviewing a book on oral sex of the female variety (cunnilingus), I have to say I’m now a BIG believer in guides on oral pleasure. It really does take more work than just an up and down motion.

Okay, so while there are many interesting sections in this book including health and safety, diagrams and anatomy, shaving and waxing and visual stimulation, the REAL heart of the book is in the techniques section.

The book contained 15 techniques in total, which range from obvious all the way to techniques I’d never heard of before! Yes, there’s much more than just suck! And if you’ve ever wanted to know how to deep throat or ever felt too scared to try, you’ll appreciate this in the advanced techniques section, although it would have been nice if it went into a little more detail.

Also, I really enjoyed the section on “building anticipation” which helps men have a more powerful and satisfying orgasm. And it was nice to see that the whole trouble with “getting it up” problem was solved with some very impressive ideas too!

However, probably the best thing about the book was that the locations, positions and new sensations sections really help inspire you to come up with your own ideas and ways to spice up fellatio and keep it exciting ­ because it’s almost always the same.

So were there any down points? Sure. I found many of the other sections a little tedious and a little boring. I mean, some were interesting, like the health and safety, but I often found myself sneaking a peak at the techniques section before coming back and reading it again properly.

Nevertheless, I still think Blow by Blow is a must read for women. So if you suspect that your man’s not enjoying oral pleasure much, you’re new to all this or a little scared, or even if you just want to give him an out of this world experience, then this book is perfect for you! Two big thumbs up!

If you want to please your man.... have a look this, it may make you both very happy,
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Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Don't put on weight while on a Cruise

As Lovers we all want to take our partner on a romantic cruise, which we all deserve at least once in out life.

Well on a cruise ship what happens?
You both walk, talk, spend time with each other - both in and out of bed -
you eat well, you celebrate, you drink, and possibly put on as much as 10 pounds each on a 7 Day Cruise.

If you’re thinking of taking a cruise in the near future, then you need to check this out. It could be the difference between the time of your life or a depressing disaster, so listen up!

I was surfing the net today and found a very interesting book about cruise vacations by best-selling author Michael Webb.

I read the book from cover to cover and I must say it’s incredible!

"How To Lose Weight While Eating Like Royalty On a Cruise"

www.cruise-ship-diets.blogspot.com

Check out this book now before you plan your cruise.

You can thank me later.


Saturday, May 10, 2008

Would you like to have writen this??????????

"Tom... For the last few years, my marriage has not been all that good. My husband is a good man. He works hard. We live in a nice house. He doesn't ever hit me. The bills get paid. But how I longed for the romance and passion we had when he first courted me and we got married. Then, on last Christmas Eve, I downloaded your book. I started using the first technique you suggested Christmas morning and boy did that set him on fire! Our life hasn't been the same since. Now he treats me like a lovesick teenage boy who can't get enough! Thank you, thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart!"
~ Rina M., St. Louis, Missouri

Do You Know?


  • What to say in the kitchen to get him to put down the paper and notice you...


  • The nine words you should never say before breakfast...


  • The secret of making him look at you (and no one else) with love and desire in his eyes...


  • The secret of making nearly every woman you meet green with envy over the way your man treats you...

  • What to keep by your bedside to guarantee good morning kisses instead of an order of eggs over-easy for breakfast...


  • A simple but fun game you can play that makes him want you all year long... The secret of getting him to make love to you as often as you want?


Get All 3 books here to find out more!



3 Ways To Intensify You Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall
lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?


It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn
three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that
will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!


1. Prolong your foreplay


An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it
gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just
human nature. Think about a big event in your life. Whether it be a party, a
holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.


Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time
under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin
and gaze lovingly into their eyes.


The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for
both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...


2. Try new things with a "twist"


Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new
lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would
definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling,
simply by using a little added creativity.


For example: Why not learn a new technique––pack a picnic and head
to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the
magic that made you fall in love in the first place.


3. Play bedroom games


Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun
and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other
tips at the same time too!


Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way

2. Try new things that the game tells you to do


And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be
using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.


Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate
play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll
just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get
excited and unleash some creativity!


So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better
way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.


About the Author:


Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "100 Sex Games For Couples",
a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and intimacy
to your experience. To read more, visit:
Learn more about '100 Sex Games For Couples' here


Thursday, May 8, 2008

What you absolutely must know about the one you are with.

This is one very useful eBook.
Here are over 1,000 of the most important questions that you and your partner should ask each other. These are the questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "couple's questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your most embarrassing moment".

Here are some of the topics the 1000 questions are divided into:

Personality, Feelings & Emotions

Pets

Health, Food & Well Being

Morals, Convictions and Beliefs

Car & Driver Holidays & Celebrations

Past & Future

Love, Romance & Date Nights

Communication

Money

Children & Child Rearing

Sex


When you and your partner answer these 1000 questions, I guarantee that you will know each other better than 99% of couples on the face of the earth,
Imagine the advantages you will both have.......

"My boyfriend and I took four months going through the questions - a few each day and at the end we were so certain about our future together that we didn't hesitate to get engaged."

"I had been going out with this guy for about 7 months and we were even engaged when I began to question whether or not I really knew him. My mom bought this book for me as she was really concerned.
We only got through about half of the book and it was pretty obvious that he wasn't exactly what he portrayed himself to be. I got real creeped out by some of his answers and I am sooooooo grateful I didn't marry the guy."

These are just a few comments from some of the many people that this book has helped...

It will help you as well.

Check out all the info available at

Checkout the 1000 questions here

Friday, March 28, 2008

If you want a ROCKIN' sex life then here's the Answer

Would you like to give your wife or girlfriend mind-blowing orgasms more often and feel more confident as a result? Do you want to turn ordinary sex into extraordinary sex?

Do you feel like your lady's getting tired of you because you can't satisfy her?

Do you find it hard to get or keep a firm erection?

3 early warning signs that women are considering to leave the relationship… most men never spot these until it's too late.........


Why Most Sex Books Are Absolute Garbage…
From my research, most authors and “sexperts” of sex-related books are former strippers, prostitutes, sex “therapists” who actually go to bed with their clients.

Personally, this is not exactly the sort of person I want to get any relationship advice or tips from.

Rest assured, inside 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets you'll only get sex ideas that help improve your relationship and bring you closer together, not further apart!


The biggest mistakes guys make giving oral sex that leave women unsatisfied… please her with this oral sex tip and many more instead........


This is a fantastic book that will give you and your lover hours of fun and pleasure.
Click Here to read more on 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets!